What’s The Secret To Keeping Long Distance Relationships Alive?
my boyfriend & i had been going steady for 7 months now. we’re sooo inlove with each other. problem is, i left for college & there’s no assurance that i can visit him even once a year. another problem is, our relationship is prohibited by my parents because “i’m too young & i should focus more on my studies”. hello? i’m 17!
when he calls on the phone, i have to hide in the bathroom so no one can hear us. i have to turn off my mobile phone whenever i’m busy so my folks won’t be able to read my my boyfriend’s messages.
i really wanna see him. they say i should finish my studies first, which is correct but is it my fault if i miss him sooo much? he can’t visit me too because his parents won’t allow him to go this far from home (but our relationship’s pkay with them). we both miss each other terribly.
Trust in each other and also make sure both want the same thing out of the relationship. Try to keep regular contact.. can be phone email chat.. Whenever u get sometime.. (n permission !) try to visit each other.
Your parents should chill once u get a year older or so !
You don’t have to hide, you should be honest and tell him the truth about you are still young, and if he really loves you he will wait and happy in any circumstance
Sounds like alto of energy to have to be so sneaky. wait till you are 18, and concentrate on your studies
if you want to see him you can use a webcam…… same here i know how you feel!!!!!i even got my phone taken away… so, i just sneak on their phone!! =P
love?
Since talking on the phone is almost impossible and getting together is not a guarantee.
Have you thought about writing each other?.
Any way you can communicate is better than no communication.
LOVE & LOVE only
Listen to your parents they know best..study hard, and one day if it is meant to be it will be…
i think your parents are right, you’re still young, at your age (17), many thing come along the way, there are still wonderful things to happen in your life, if your bf loves you, he’ll understand your situation. be a good girl, please your parents while they’re still alive… make up your mind… don’t focus too much in your lovelife, that can wait… be educated, get a good job, and you’ll have your lovelife…
Call me and we can talk about it… jk
To answer your question… No, so what do you plan to do?
It’s not your fault for liking each other. Contact is key in LDRs you could get a post office box and send love letter back and forth with special pictures of each other or the place you’ve seen while away from each other. also talk to him on a pay phone whenever you get the chance.
You’re 17 and have no concept of what real love is. Your parents are right, get a college degree and then find a guy, you will be thanking them later when you do.