No Girlfriend All Through Highschool Until College. Please Help..?
Hello, I have a slight problem. I’m 16 years old and just graduated tenth grade. My parents sent me to an all boys military school this past year and while i was there, I noticed that everyone i know and liked is about 900 miles away from me. This means that if I were to have a relationship it would be extremely long distance and difficult to handle. And I’m being sent there for my junior and senior year too.
So….would it be a bad idea to go all of my life without a girlfriend until college or later? Or should I go for the long shot and try to manage a relationship in these harsh conditions?
Thanks.
Long Distance Relationship And Christmas Gifts?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months as of last sunday however i’ve known him for 6 years. The only thing is we go to different colleges that are 4 hours apart. Christmas is coming up in just under 2 months and over the next few weeks I plan on starting to look for Christmas gifts for him and everyone else I have to shop for. Does anyone have any suggestions of cute Christmas gifts that say “I love you” more than “I spent a lot of money on this gift.” Or maybe something cute for our 6 month anniversary right after Thanksgiving. Any ideas would be great simply because I feel like nothing I get him is going to be good enough….
Boyfriend…sex…basketball..…
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months now and I love him dearly. Well I tell every one that I love them but its deeper than that I feel for others. Anyway, he is younger than me by 10 months (such a coincidence) and he has had sex before. I am 17 turning 18 and I am still a virgin. He wants to have sex but I don’t feel like I am ready. Here is the catch 22, I want to but I was raped when I was younger so every time we reach the undressing stage I start having flashbacks and can’t go on any more.
2) We have been dating so long I guess I am starting to feel like it is time for a change of scenery and test the waters. I want to be with him but with me going off to college and him still being a sophomore in high school, the long distance thing just wont work for me.
3) All I really want to do is play basketball but I don’t know how to be all about ball and maintain a relationship and 4.00 GPA. Something has got to give.
What do I do??? My sanity is my happiness. Please help!
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Francesco Totti and Cassano were team-mates at Roma, but endured a frosty relationship after the latter left for Real Madrid. However, it seems they have put their differences aside as the Giallorossi captain wished Cassano well after …
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Long Distance Relationship !!!?
Okay, i’ve been in contact with this guy who lives like about 4-5 hours away from me. we met each other online. So we decided to meet each other and we did basically im in a relationship with him now.we keep ourselves in contact by phone and text messages and we were thinking we can work this relationship out and have some good time even if there is a distance problem. But lately i feel like i dont have time for our relationship because my college is starting and i work weekends plus weekdays after college. When will i have time to meet him?? And this year is so important for me if i want to get good a-level results. Its like i can only meet him in holidays…i really dont know how to tell him…i mean our relationship has only started (i’ve only met him once). I do want to see how it goes on but i really need space at this time ..and i dont have any time for a relationship especialy long distance which is like 3-4 hours.!! help how do i tell him without making him think negative .
I Like Her But She’s In A Long Distance Relationship, Advice?
We are both in our first year of college, in different programs. We’re both 18, We’ve been hanging out alot lately, drinking and going to parties with friends and such. after the first/second week hanging out with her she added me on facebook and it says shes got a bf. before we started hanging out, her facebook status says stuff like “i miss my boyfriend” and stuff. It hasnt since. The strange thing is, she’s never mentioned, neither have her friends that she has a BF.
I know that long distance relationships dont work/wont work through the 3 years of college.. I feel bad and i don’t want to put her in a situation she has to deal with daily temptations.. I can tell shes really into me. If i make a move, and shes not interested in that way, theres a chance ill lose this friendship.
Should I just mask my feelings and remain friends until this relationship dissolves? Any advice or people that have had the same kind of problem?
A Possible, Doomed, Long Distance Relationship….?
well, this is kinda complicated so here goes…my friend just graduated from college and lives about 200 miles away (I’m in the northern part of the state and he’s from the southern part). We both have feelings for each other but since he graduated we decided not to act on them since the chances of us seeing each other again are pretty slim. He is adamant about getting a job up here so we can still see each other but the field he’s it’s hard to find a job around here. So, here goes the question, I still have about two more years of college to go…is he worth keeping in contact with or should I just let the relationship tamper off? We’re both close to each other but we are not a couple (even though are friends swear we are) and I don’t want to get involved in a long distance relationship b/c him coming up here is hard now that he’s at home…basically we communicate through messenger and the phone…I don’t want to get hurt, any suggestions or recommendations?
Young Military Marriage Following A Long Distance Relationship?
Hello! My boyfriend and I have been dating for well over three years. He is 18 and I am 19. For the last year we have been long distance (his family moved four states away, and I moved to college), however it has not been an issue for us keeping our love strong. At the end of this year, when he graduates high school, he is joining the air force. Both sets of our parents love him and I together and are okay with the idea of a young marriage, mainly because they know we are perfect for each other and make each other very happy. We have the thought of engagement and a wedding in our minds but have never said anything to make it one hundred percent.
My question is, in your opinion, should we get married now or wait till after his training.
I am almost finished with my associates degree, and plan on finishing my schooling where ever I move to with him (if that is the case). Either that, or I will finish my bachelors degree at the university I am at now and move with him afterwards.
What do you think would be a better situation?
Thank you so much for your advice, but please, not ridiculing.
Can’t Do A Long Distance Relationship So Should I Be Fwb?
I really don’t want a long distance relationship it wouldn’t work out & I know what college he is going to & I am applying also but I don’t want a relationship to influence my decision on going there.
Help On Long Distance Relationship??????????????
I’ve recently been involved in a long distance relationship with my high school sweetheart, i’m away at college. It’s been hard for us, we love each other but not being able to see each other continuously is driving us both crazy! He recently expressed his feelings to me about wanting me to move back home for school. Which isn’t possible, because i only have 1 more year left. To make a long story short, we’re not in a “formal” relationship now. But, when I come home for winter break we’ll spend time together, and probably be intimate. I was just wondering if this is healthy for us, or if we should make a clean break??
