No Girlfriend All Through Highschool Until College. Please Help..?
Hello, I have a slight problem. I’m 16 years old and just graduated tenth grade. My parents sent me to an all boys military school this past year and while i was there, I noticed that everyone i know and liked is about 900 miles away from me. This means that if I were to have a relationship it would be extremely long distance and difficult to handle. And I’m being sent there for my junior and senior year too.
So….would it be a bad idea to go all of my life without a girlfriend until college or later? Or should I go for the long shot and try to manage a relationship in these harsh conditions?
Thanks.
Young Military Marriage Following A Long Distance Relationship?
Hello! My boyfriend and I have been dating for well over three years. He is 18 and I am 19. For the last year we have been long distance (his family moved four states away, and I moved to college), however it has not been an issue for us keeping our love strong. At the end of this year, when he graduates high school, he is joining the air force. Both sets of our parents love him and I together and are okay with the idea of a young marriage, mainly because they know we are perfect for each other and make each other very happy. We have the thought of engagement and a wedding in our minds but have never said anything to make it one hundred percent.
My question is, in your opinion, should we get married now or wait till after his training.
I am almost finished with my associates degree, and plan on finishing my schooling where ever I move to with him (if that is the case). Either that, or I will finish my bachelors degree at the university I am at now and move with him afterwards.
What do you think would be a better situation?
Thank you so much for your advice, but please, not ridiculing.
Long Distance Problem?
my family is living n another country..my bf don`t want us to get separated again because of long distance so he got me preg! [it was confirmed that i was preg when we got separated again by distance]..we both want this baby and we are so happy to have this!
now the problem is,my parents don`t want me to go back to the country where my bf is if were not still married..but my bf promised to his parents that we will get married after his college..and 2-3 years more college! [i think my bf`s parents don`t want us to get married unless my bf has not finished school yet]..now,my bf wants me to go back home but my parents dont agree with it! im confused so any advice what to do? we cant like even see eachother unless we are married! eventhough he`s the father..
Long Distance With A Marine?
My boyfriend of a year and I have thought of so many options. I’m from Germany and he’s from the States. He wants to be a Marine and my parents want me to go to college in Germany. My boyfriend and I have agreed to try long distance for 3 years. He would come see me once a year and I would come see him 2-3 times a year.
Marines, do you think a long distance relationship could work?
We love each other very much and are extremely committed to each other. We plan on getting married and having our own family.
What do you think?
Also, are visitors allowed on base? For how long can they stay? Can they spend the night?
Gift For Long-term, Long-distance Boyfriend.?
ive been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years now, so most of the generic boyfriend/girlfriend gifts have been given a long time ago…lol
were both away at college, so for most of the year we are in a long-distance relationship.
the holidays are coming up and im SO excited to see him!
any ideas of a good gift to get a long-distance boyfriend that you will be seeing since youre both home for the holidays? also, as much as a sexy night together sounds like a great idea, we are both living with our parents when we are at home…so a sleepover or hotel night is not an option.
any ideas would be appreciated 
How To Tell My Parents Abouta Long Distances Boyfriend Thats Moving Here.?
im a turning 18 in less than a month and moving to college and want to remain close with the family.
and ive been dating him for almost 9 months.
i know who he is and not some creepy kid
my parents dont approve of long distance relationships.
Long Distance Relationship Advice?
Recently this girl I am talking to are considering a relationship. She lives like across the country, but she’s scared of long distance relationships. She said she needs to sort things out and everything, and what I want to know is that if things ever work out, is it possible that we can work on the relationship without seeing each other in person? My parents are extremely over protective and would be tripping balls if they knew I was going for a girl this far. Thats why I plan on college in Miami or Rhode Island, she lives in Jersey. I just want to know what you think
Long Distance Relationshipwhat Should I Do? I Dont Want To Leave Her,i Love Her So Very Much. What Should I Do
I have been in a long distance relationship with my g/f for 5 1/2 years now. i live in michigan and she lives in minesotta. We see eachother every other few months or so. Now that i am in college, and i have a great paying job its hard to see her. The goal was for me to move to MN but its just hard to drop my job, health benefits, and school. I mean i love her but its real hard for me to move. i love her and everything but i just dont know what to do. i did move to mn for a yr right when i got out of high school. it was great seeing her everyday, but financially it was real tough. plus i truly missed my family and freinds back home in MI. At this point we are still dating and we will continue to do so, but what do i do? i am young only 21 but i have everyhting goin for me here. i asked her if she wanted to move here she says no. She also has a seizure disorder. When she has this her parents or relatives need to be there to answer questions based on family history to seiasure probs
Long Distance Relationship.. How To Make It Better?
*sighs* well here I go.. I have a long distance relationship with my bf we have been together for 7 months..its been great we email each other, chat on gmail, and talk on the phone so wats the problem? well our parents dont know any of this they dont know were dating, they dont even know that my bf and I know each other.If they knew they would kill me im so sure of it..im not allowed to date I have those parents who are strict..they think I dont know wat love is or any of that bull but I know wat im feeling and its def love. It makes me sad cuz they put me down alot saying i dont know anything about love and its just a waste of time for now..that i should wait. well it wasnt my fault i feel this way! am I right? anyways I met my bf online we have been best friends for 3 yrs and last year we starting liking each other even more im really liking it we have never met in real life but i know its not some creep cuz i talk to him on the phone and his lil sister so i know its him…. plz plz plz dont be cruel about our age difference he just turned 15 and i’m 18 which I just turned…i know crazy right? but I love him so so much I have never felt this way for a guy he just amazes me..we plan on meeting in life when we are in college which is probably a long time the fact I graduate this year… we both have a future on being someone..have a professional life..we want to get married def and we want to just be with each other for the rest of our lives..I really want to grow old with him i know it sounds crazy but its one of my dreams in life…lately its been hard for him cuz he keeps asking me wat if it wont work out? as in the distance and all? but its hard keeping in contact since his parents “almost found out about us” so she took his computer away from him so we talk..just like 3 days in a week..we used to talk like everyday but ever since his mom found out :/ its been hard. my q is how do you keep in contact with ur long distance relationship? btw we both cant text each other, send letters ect. we can only talk online and on the phone but we only talk on the phone when our parents arent home. Thnx so so much in advance.
What’s The Secret To Keeping Long Distance Relationships Alive?
my boyfriend & i had been going steady for 7 months now. we’re sooo inlove with each other. problem is, i left for college & there’s no assurance that i can visit him even once a year. another problem is, our relationship is prohibited by my parents because “i’m too young & i should focus more on my studies”. hello? i’m 17!
when he calls on the phone, i have to hide in the bathroom so no one can hear us. i have to turn off my mobile phone whenever i’m busy so my folks won’t be able to read my my boyfriend’s messages.
i really wanna see him. they say i should finish my studies first, which is correct but is it my fault if i miss him sooo much? he can’t visit me too because his parents won’t allow him to go this far from home (but our relationship’s pkay with them). we both miss each other terribly.
