Should I End This Long Distance Relationship Before I Move Closer To Him?
First off, don’t judge me cuz some of the info is kinda personal.
I’ve been with this guy for almost 11 months, and for the first 8, everything was great (After I went to college things have been harder). And it’s a long distance relationship, but I planned on moving maybe like 900 miles west to a college closer to him. And if I do it’s gonna be in 3-4 weeks, when the semester ends.
But lately I just dunno about him. He’s been treating me as just some body instead of somebody, and I don’t want that at all. Like, he masterbates and stuff, and lately, as soon as he finishes he’s all like, “I’m going to bed. I’ll talk to u tomorrow. love you.”
Like today he was texting me and was like, “hey I need some help with my english paper tonight..can u help me?,” so I said yes. When I went to newspaper (I work for the university newspaper) I made sure I didn’t choose events that were tonight just so I could help him and talk to him. But when he got home he pretty much talked to me, got off, then went to bed. His plan is to wake up at 3 am (my 5 am) and do his homework. I don’t really get why he chooses to be awake when I’m sleeping and chooses to sleep when I’m awake.
The last time we talked he did the same thing. Like what the hell. I don’t talk to him for him to get off and leave. And it’s making me feel like that’s all he wants me for. I’m not gonna give someone that lame my virginity, right?
He just doesn’t seem like he used to be. I dumped him a month ago because I thought he changed from the sweet person he used to be, and I let him back into my life.
But honestly, he isn’t even really that sweet. When we first met he wrote so many poems…just because. He would always surprise me. Now he just writes poems if I dump him (I’ve dumped him once).
Deep down I know what I should do, but I don’t wanna make a wrong decision. At one point I really did love him, and it was because of everything he did. Now, I just find myself aggravated so much more often with him. He’s a douche really.
Any suggestions?
Thanks!
Long Distance Lesbian Relationships?
so i’m 19 and am in my second long distance relationship with a girl. the first one lasted over a year and she moved in with me about 7 months into it. at the end i realized our relationship wasn’t healthy. i felt like she was my child because even though she is 2 years older than me, she didn’t have a good head on her shoulders and was completely unstable. she didn’t make me happy at all. so we ended it. a few months later, when i least expected it, i met a girl at the college i go to. turns out she was from england and only here for a semester abroad. we spent a month together. at first we were just friends and flirted a lot. but then we took it a bit further, not realizing it would turn into something. we had sex about 6 times in that entire month, but i didn’t mind that it wasn’t very often and neither did she. we just loved spending time together. she went to san francisco, and i ended up buying a $600 ticket to go with her. on that trip we realized we were completely in love. and she had to go back to england a week later. she left on may 17th. but came back on july 1st. and spent an entire month with me and left on tuesday. this past month has been the best month of my life. she makes me so happy and the love we have for each other feels so different than any other love we’ve had for anyone else. the sex is amazing. we just click so well, and we’re completely comfortable together. i love every second we spend together even when she annoys the hell out of me, but it’s the kind of annoying that i love. i love her even when she bugs me (which isn’t often, fyi). i can’t explain it. she’s been gone for a day and a half and i miss her more than words can describe. i just feel like something is missing. as far as i know the next time i can see her is in december. i want to spend a month in england over my break between semesters. we’ve been dating for 3 months as of today. i don’t want this to end because of the distance and it’s not that i think it will, it’s just i’m so scared it will effect the way we feel. she has plans to move to the US either in feb or may… depending on if she’s going back to university in england. any suggestions on how to make this easier? we talk as much as possible.. esp on skype and i have calling cards, etc. i just don’t think any amount of skype conversations are going to make me miss her any less… on another note does anyone have advice on how to get her in the country legally and stay here? one of her best guy friends here said he’d marry her. i know it’s illegal, but idk what else she can do. the work permit thing seems ridiculously hard.. plus it seems like you have to have some “special skills that the US is in demand for” in order to apply for one. i wish i could pack my life up and move to england with her sometimes, but i can’t… i’ve got 3 years left of school. =/ any advice or anything would be appreciated. thank you!
ps: sorry this is a novel. you should get an award if you read all this, let alone if you answer.. =]
How The Hell Are Ireland 34 On The World Rankings?
LINK~~~~~~~~~~~~http://www.fifa.com/worldfootball/rankin…
Like Come on,Nothern ireland are ahead Lol!were much better!
And were only 1 point behind Italy in or world cup 2010 group!Link~~~~http://www.fifa.com/worldfootball/rankin… Group 8! and were undefeated!
and english or americans don’t say there crap cuz there not!
7 South Americans In Brazil 2014 World Cup? A Dream Come True?
most south americans as myself have always thought that our continent deserves a lot more world cup spots , hell, we are only 10 nations and we have won 9 world cups and 10 U-20 world cups.. for Brazil 2014 world cup, Brazil of course won’t play qualifiers, and the remaining 9 south Americans nations will play for 4.5 places, so that means 6 world cup spots, but what if a south american wins 2010 world cup? historically, europeans never win a world cup when the world cup takes place outside of europe.. us south americans have lift the world cup trophy in europe, north america, and asia… i’m 100% sure a south american national team will win 2010 world cup, let’s say argentine or uruguay or chile or colombia or paraguay win 2010 world cup,. and let’s say the FIFA decides that this team will qualify automatically to 2014 world cup.. that would mean, 7 south american teams in brazil 2014 world cup!
Hey What Do You Think About The World Cup? And What Team Well Tak It All Home? And Are You Ready For Fifa 2010
well i think it is the bast i love soccer it the #1 sport in the world. who well take the cup it well be freance if not than italy, and hell yea i am ready for fifa world cup 2010.
